No really... I AM BLESSED!!!!

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How lucky am I really. well I have amazing kkids, a loving husband, generous caring friends and nieces and nephews that make me want to stick around for this trip to see how amazing their lives turn out. Allie and Missi and Kaleigh went out tog et tattoos tonight. I knew they would do it while she was in but I guess I didnt really THINK ABOUT IT>
Missi is underage so didnt get inked although she explained ot me what she wants when she IS old enough. SHe wants a Celtic tree of life with KTP scrolled into the trunk. A mix of both Moms Irish heritage and Dads KTP. thoughtgul, sweet and beautiful. The other two got their tattoos tonight. Kaleigh this is number four and she said this is it. Allie this is number two and it for a while. You will see them and my night with t he girlS and boy and Nana. It was a nice noght. My brother is comiong in tomorrow from New Mexico for ten days. I am very happy and look forward to some time to just chill and feel... comfort. All my boiys will be in this weekend. I am very happy and cant wait to have all my boys together in the same place for a night or two. There is comfort and alot of peace for me when I am with them. At least for a while. Knowing they KNOW what I feel, MY loss is theirs, My joys have been theirs, and truthfully our pains and secrets are the same too. There is beauty in the breakdown. Enjoy this small snapshot of my world, I wish you all some joy tonight.

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