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Oh yeah well.... I feel worse.

I have a blogger site that I go to every few days to check in on. I never comment her becaue she has alot of friends and family that tell her enough, more than Iwould know what to say. I read her blog because in a sick and twisted way (full on honesty here)- her pain puts my loss into perspective. She delivered twin boys at 32 weeks, One boy survived and is perfectly well, small but well. The other child suffered severe brain damage from incompetent placenta and lack of O2. He lived a total of 6 weeks and then died inher arms. They were not aware of the severity of his injuries until after his death. They believed they were going to be bringing home two healthy boys until a few days before his death. OK what am I getting at. Well she made a very very profound entry the other day and it has taken me a while to digest. She has gotten a few negative comments from readers concerning, "their loss compared to her loss and how she only had her son for 6 weeks and she shoudnt fe...