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13 years... but i stopped counting.

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Today is our 13th wedding anniversary. We went for dinner on saturday night, I got a lovely card. I also got a new (to me) convertible!!!  Its cute and will be driven around the Fort ALL SUMMER!!! But what would a wedding anniversary celebration be iff... just say.... 12th year was the hardest one yet. There were tears, and disagreements, and slammed doors, with alot of quiet hours? I imagine it could go one of two ways. 1.  We stay resentful, angry, hair trigger emotional bubbles. 2. We continue, on a daily basis let go... bit by bit... of those hurt feelings and what ifs?  I remain grateful, everyday for my Andy, his faithfulness to our family and home.  His ability to adapt and make things just happen and work.  With all of my ability to just give up and give in...  he stays on course with "family, love and commitment". So..Happy lucky number 13 to us. I remember the day we married I said to myself.. "If this isnt going to work I will kno...